March 7, 2025

The Roots of Anger: Why We Lose Our Cool

The Roots of Anger: Why We Lose Our Cool

Why do we lose our cool? What’s really happening beneath the surface when anger takes hold? In this episode of The Psychology of Us with Professor RJ Starr, we dive deep into the psychology of anger—where it comes from, what it’s trying to tell us, and how we can manage it in healthier, more constructive ways.

Anger is often misunderstood. It’s not just an explosive reaction—it’s a complex emotional signal, a response to deeper feelings like fear, frustration, or hurt. But when left unchecked, it can take a toll on our relationships, our health, and even our sense of self. In this episode, Professor Starr unpacks the roots of anger, explores the science behind it, and shares psychological insights, case studies, and personal stories to help you better understand your own emotional responses.

You’ll learn:

  • Why anger exists and how it evolved as a survival mechanism
  • The hidden emotions that often fuel anger—and how to uncover them
  • Common triggers and patterns that lead to losing control
  • The psychological and physical costs of unchecked anger
  • Practical tools for managing anger in a healthy, productive way


Whether you struggle with anger yourself or want to better understand the people around you, this episode offers valuable insights and actionable strategies for transforming anger from a destructive force into a tool for growth.

Tune in, reflect, and take the first step toward mastering your emotional responses.

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