The Psychology of Us

The Psychology of Us

"The Psychology of Us with Professor RJ Starr" explores the fascinating world of human behavior, relationships, and shared experiences. Hosted by acclaimed psychology educator and author Professor RJ Starr, this podcast makes psychology relatable and engaging, breaking down complex ideas into practi...

Recent Episodes

Nov. 26, 2025

The Hidden Anxiety of Thanksgiving: Why Togetherness Doesn’t Always F…

Thanksgiving looks like connection from the outside—the full table, the smell of sage and pie, the laughter that fills a familiar room. But beneath the warmth, many people feel a quiet unease they can’t quite name. In this ex...

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Nov. 19, 2025

The Psychology of Manifestation: When Belief Feels Like Magic

People often speak about manifestation as if it’s magic—think the law of attraction, divine timing, or the universe conspiring to deliver what we desire. But what’s really happening when a thought seems to become reality? In ...

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Nov. 12, 2025

The Psychology of the Commons: Why Some People Care When No One’s Wat…

Why do some people care for the spaces we share while others act as if they exist outside of them? You see it everywhere—the neighbor who breaks down their boxes, the driver who stays within the limit on an empty road, the em...

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Nov. 5, 2025

The Psychology of Having an Opinion: Why We Care How Other People Live

It began as a light moment in class on Halloween morning. Students were chatting about their plans—costumes, haunted houses, parties—when one young woman casually said she always puts up her Christmas tree that night. She doe...

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Oct. 29, 2025

Becoming Real: The Psychology of Selfhood in an Imitative Age

We live in a time when being “authentic” has become its own kind of performance. In this lecture, Professor RJ Starr explores how the modern self is shaped by imitation, validation, and attention — and what psychology reveals...

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Oct. 22, 2025

The Psychology of Restraint: The Quiet Strength Within

In a world that rewards immediacy, restraint has become an endangered virtue. Every platform encourages reaction, every moment invites commentary, and silence has started to feel like weakness. But what if the real measure of...

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