The Psychology of Us by Professor RJ Starr

The Psychology of Us by Professor RJ Starr

"The Psychology of Us with Professor RJ Starr" explores the fascinating world of human behavior, relationships, and shared experiences. Hosted by acclaimed psychology educator and author Professor RJ Starr, this podcast makes psychology relatable and engaging, breaking down complex ideas into practi...

Recent Episodes

June 2, 2025

Why Smart People Make Dumb Emotional Decisions

Why do intelligent, high-functioning people so often make emotionally reckless or baffling decisions? In this episode, Professor RJ Starr unpacks the psychological gap between intellectual intelligence (IQ) and emotional matu...

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May 31, 2025

The Psychology of Hostile Elders: Aging, and the Decline of Social Gr…

Why do so many older adults seem angrier, more impatient, and less socially graceful than previous generations? What happened to the dignity, composure, and manners that once defined aging? In this episode, we explore the psy...

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May 26, 2025

Why We Need to Be Liked: The Emotional Cost of Validation

Why does a compliment feel like oxygen—and silence feel like a threat? Why do we keep checking for reactions, even when we tell ourselves we don’t care? In this episode of The Psychology of Us , Professor RJ Starr unpacks the...

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May 24, 2025

Why We Love Violence: The Dark Psychology Behind Our Social Urge to W…

Why We Love Violence: The Dark Psychology Behind Our Social Urge to Win, Control, and Punish Why are we so drawn to violence—not just in movies and media, but in everyday life? From binge-watching brutal TV shows to shouting ...

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May 20, 2025

Why the Bad Sticks: the Psychology of Negativity Bias

Why do we fixate on one negative comment even after receiving dozens of compliments? Why does one bad day feel heavier than a week of good ones? In this episode of The Psychology of Us , Professor RJ Starr unpacks the powerfu...

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May 16, 2025

Memory Home: When the Place That Held You Is Gone

In this emotionally rich episode of The Psychology of Us , Professor RJ Starr explores the powerful concept of the memory home —a place that holds your story, your safety, and your sense of self—even if it’s no longer there. ...

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